by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
It is whatever you believe it is, until you don’t. And then, it is something else. That’s the nature of our beliefs and our reality. Our experience is what we think, not sometimes…every time!
Has your partner ever come to you and insisted that you are doing such and such…? And he says it as though it is fact. Yet, in your heart of hearts, you know his assertion not to be so.
You also know that the lie he is telling himself is the root cause of the conflict between the two of you. It’s not about you; rather it is between his belief and his experience.
To read the complete article, please visit Fighting in Abusive Relationships – Lies That Turn Into Verbal Attacks and Emotional Abuse
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