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Sunday, March 27th, 2011
“When I speak my pain and you give me your pain or your excuse to have pained me, I hurt the same…and sometimes more.” Sound familiar?
When domestic violence victims rally up the nerve to voice their inner ache with the person that has violated them, many things can happen. They can be heard or not heard, by the other and by themselves.
To read the complete article, please visit Relationship Conflict – Empathy and Healing Abuse in Controlling Relationships
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Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
Battered men possess an amazing amount of strength. The problem is that the only real power they embody is their strength to absorb the violence.
In the cascade of verbal, emotional, psychological and physical abuse, they endure-day by day, week by week, year by year. They stand there and take it, weathering the blows as they fake “you can’t hurt me.”
To read the complete article, please visit Battered Men – The “Abused Endurer” Stuck in His Emotional Desert
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Thursday, March 17th, 2011
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
“He wants what he wants when he wants it. And if he doesn’t get it, you’re in trouble.” Sound familiar?
He may whine, pout, start a fight about something else…hold resentment indefinitely. Who knows? One thing for sure here is that he has made you responsible for his well-being.
To read the complete article, please visit Relationship Responsibility – The Misconception of Responsibility in Controlling Relationships
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