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Tuesday, December 7th, 2010
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
“Let me tell you how defective you are” is a strategy that will yield a disconnection. Whereas, “here is what I need from you” lends itself to connection and communion.
In domestic abuse counseling, couples find that the former is a relationship compromiser and the latter is a relationship enhancer. And learning this lesson is transformational to the individuals, as well as to the relationship.
To read the complete article, visit Relationship Conflict – Eliminating Judgments and Fulfilling Needs in Domestic Abuse Treatment
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Saturday, December 4th, 2010
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
The next worst thing to being abused is retelling the story over and over, again and again in the context of a custody dispute. Of course, the operative words here are “over and over” “again and again.”
If you think you are doing your child a service by letting his/her voice be heard in your custody battle, think again. Not about their voice factored into the equation, but about the impact of telling his/her story, over and over again.
To read the complete article, visit Family Violence Divorce How the Replay Button Aggravates Child Abuse During Custody Disputes
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Thursday, December 2nd, 2010
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
A controlling husband wants what he wants when he wants it…and that includes sex. If you are in a controlling relationship, you know the nuances of sex and control.
To read the complete article, visit Controlling Husband – Bulldozed Intimacy in Abusive Relationships
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