June 15th, 2010
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
For over a decade, I have been writing about domestic violence divorce and legal-psychiatric abuse to aide battered mothers in family court. There’s no question in my mind that people who are re-victimized by a perpetrator’s use of the system know who they are. They know when this is happening to them.
But more often than not, they lose sight of the abuse dynamics in play and fail to identify the actual players. Then there are those survivors who know the dynamics and players, but remain completely unaware of how to block legal-psychiatric ploys and prevent the re-victimization of themselves and their children.
To read the complete article, please visit Domestic Violence Divorce – The Key to Legal-Psychiatric Abuse Prevention
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June 10th, 2010
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
People treat you the way you teach them to treat you. If you request and insist on your boundaries being honored, they will be. On the other hand, if you allow others to determine whether to respect your limits or not, then expect your boundaries to be treated as they wish to do so.
This is an important lesson for anyone who has ever been in an abusive relationship, either with a parent or with an intimate partner. It’s a lesson that requires clear and focused integration and application, yet this lesson is all too often ignored.
To read the complete article, visit Healing from Domestic Abuse – The Creation and Implication of Fuzzy Versus Firm Boundaries
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June 7th, 2010
by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.
People say that domestic violence victims have serious boundaries issues…which they do. And so do the perpetrators that they live with. It comes with the territory of being in an abusive relationship.
You might think of it as two people having a tolerance for the actions of the other. Or, it can be seen as operant conditioning in play wherein one person conditions the other to surrender their boundaries for safety in the relationship. Abusive relationship help typically recognizes these boundary issues.
To read the complete article, visit Abusive Relationship Help: Healing the Two Sides of Boundary Issues in Abusive Relationships
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