It is the children of domestic violence by proxy that are the true casualties of this social disease. Usually they don’t know who they are, until it is too late.
They live in the shadow of their domineering parent, until the day comes when they awaken to the fact that they do not now who they are. They spend their lives playing into the hand of their abusive parent just to keep peace, all while believing that it is for the good of themselves and for the family. These are the children of domestic violence by proxy.
Have you ever noticed how some people feel so entitled to smash their will right down your throat? And should you resist, their rage bubbles up to bite you.
If you are in an abusive relationship, chances are you know this one. Take Linda and Jason, for example.
Here’s a couple that enjoys what appears to be a loving relationship from the outside looking in. However, when Jason wants what he wants, he wants it now, and he wants it without any negotiation from Linda.
